Character actor James Rebhorn, who died at the age of 65, wrote his own obituary prior to his death last week.
Rebhorn was one of those "that guy" actors who appeared opposite Al Pacino in Scent of a Woman, in Independence Day with Will Smith and most recently in hit US TV series Homeland.
He passed away at his home on Friday, 21 March following a battle with melanoma which lasted twenty years. During the fight he penned his own obituary, which was published on Jersey City's St Paul Lutheran Church website.
Rebhorn said "he was a lucky man in every way", and spoke of his parents who "loved him very much and supported all his dreams".
Speaking of his sister Janice Galbraith, he said she was his "friend, confidant, and more often than either of them would like to admit, his bridge over troubled waters". He also said his wife and two daughters "anchored his life and gave him the freedom to live it".
The actor was also known for roles in Meet the Parents, The Talented Mr Ripley and The Game.
You can read the full obituary below:
"James Robert Rebhorn was born on Sept. 1, 1948, in Philadelphia, PA. His mother, Ardell Frances Rebhorn, nee Hoch, loved him very much and supported all his dreams. She taught him the value of good manners and courtesy, and that hospitality is no small thing. His father, James Harry Rebhorn, was no less devoted to him. From him, Jim learned that there is no excuse for poor craftsmanship. A job well done rarely takes more or less time than a job poorly done. They gave him his faith and wisely encouraged him to stay in touch with God.
He is survived by his sister, Janice Barbara Galbraith, of Myrtle Beach, SC. She was his friend, his confidant, and, more often than either of them would like to admit, his bridge over troubled waters.
He is also survived by his wife, Rebecca Fulton Linn, and his two daughters, Emma Rebecca Rebhorn and Hannah Linn Rebhorn. They anchored his life and gave him the freedom to live it. Without them, always at the center of his being, his life would have been little more than a vapor. Rebecca loved him with all his flaws, and in her the concept of ceaseless love could find no better example.
His children made him immensely proud. Their dedication to improving our species and making the world a better place gave him hope for the future. They deal with grief differently, and they should each manage it as they see fit. He hopes, however, that they will grieve his passing only as long as necessary. They have much good work to do, and they should get busy doing it. Time is flying by. His son-in-law, Ben, also survives him. Jim loved Ben, who was as a son to Jim, especially through these last months.
His aunts Jean, Dorothy and Florence, numerous cousins and their families, and many devoted friends also survive Jim. He loved them all, and he knows they loved him.
Jim received his BA at Wittenberg University and his MFA at Columbia. He was a member of Lambda Chi Alpha Nu Zeta 624, a life-long Lutheran, and a longtime member of both the AMC and ACLU.
Jim was fortunate enough to earn his living doing what he loved. He was a professional actor. His unions were always there for him, and he will remain forever grateful for the benefits he gained as a result of the union struggle. Without his exceptional teachers and the representation of the best agents in the business, he wouldn't have had much of a career. He was a lucky man in every way."
–Jim Rebhorn, March 2014