Every April, all 21-year-old Thai men face a life-changing choice: they can volunteer to serve in the army for six months, or opt to take their chances in a lottery. If they draw a black card they can skip military service, but if they draw a red one they must serve for two years.

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A young man prays before picking a lottery paper from a jar, during the annual military draft in BangkokLillian Suwanrumpha/AFP

Crowds of their friends and relatives watch in excitement as the young men pull a ticket out of a plastic bucket, determining whether or not they will have to serve in the military. Nobody wants a red card, which means serving for two years, with the chance of a posting in the dangerous south, where Muslim Malay separatists are fighting an insurgency.

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A man pulls a ticket out from a plastic bucket during an army draft held at a school in Klong Toey, the dockside slum area in BangkokAthit Perawongmetha/Reuters
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A young man reacts after picking a black lottery paper, exempting him from military service, during the annual military draft in BangkokLillian Suwanrumpha/AFP
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A man reacts after being exempted from military service Athit Perawongmetha/Reuters
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Relatives and friends react as a recruit pulls out a black ticketAthit Perawongmetha/Reuters
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Military officers prepare red tickets during an army draft held at a school in Klong Toey, the dockside slum area in BangkokAthit Perawongmetha/Reuters
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A man reacts after picking a red lottery paper, conscripting him to military service, during the annual military draft in BangkokLillian Suwanrumpha/AFP
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A man reacts after picking a red ballot paper, conscripting him to two years' military service Athit Perawongmetha/Reuters
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A novice monk reacts after picking a red ballot paper, meaning he will have to serve for two yearsLillian Suwanrumpha/AFP

Some wealthy and well-connected Thais have been known to pay bribes to keep their sons from military service, but others see the army and its basic salary as a way out of poverty and a means to discipline unruly sons.

Exemptions are made for those who are physically or mentally incapable. Transgender women are also exempted from having to serve in the army – but only if they can prove that they are not faking it. They must submit to a physical examination to check whether they have breasts or have undergone gender reassignment surgery.

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Transgender woman Kanphitcha Sungsuk, 21, waits for a physical examination during an army draft held at a school in Klong Toey, the dockside slum area in BangkokAthit Perawongmetha/Reuters
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Army recruiters interview a transgender woman Athit Perawongmetha/Reuters

Those with physical alterations or who show what the rules refer to as "gender identity disorder" are exempt from conscription, but those who have not undergone such changes must return for up to two more years, unless an army hospital certifies they have the "disorder". Trans women say the reference to a disorder stigmatises them. However, the army has softened its description from the previous "permanent mental disorder".

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Potential draftees line up to register during the annual military draft in BangkokLillian Suwanrumpha/AFP
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A potential recruit puts on make-up while waiting to speak to officersAthit Perawongmetha/Reuters
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A military officer carries out a physical examination on potential recruitsAthit Perawongmetha/Reuters

Thailand is widely seen as a paradise for gay and trans people. However, they cannot change the gender designation on their identity papers, despite a 2015 law against gender-based discrimination. "I was born male, so I must be here, as duty calls," said Kanphitcha Sungsuk, 21, as she waited for military officers to call her name and decide whether she would be drafted.

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Kanphitcha Sungsuk, 21, holds up a picture of herself as a young boy after an army draft at her home near Klong Toey, the dockside slum area in BangkokAthit Perawongmetha/Reuters

Jetsada Taesombat, executive director of the Thai Transgender Alliance for Human Rights, said the process is traumatic for many trans women: "Some are so stressed out they want to commit suicide to avoid conscription."

Some transgender women told Reuters they had been told to leave women's toilets so as to not "frighten" women. "Society looks on and thinks we are accepted, but it's actually not so," said Khwan Suphalak, 23. "We're always treated differently," she said, adding that hotels had barred her entry over her gender.