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A TikToker went viral after showing up to a black-tie wedding in a colourful outfit, sparking online backlash and debate. Pexels

A TikTok user's wedding outfit blunder has gone viral after she arrived at a black-tie ceremony dressed in what she later described as a 'toddler-like' ensemble. The mix-up, caused by her boyfriend forgetting to mention the formal dress code, left her hiding in embarrassment as she realised her mistake too late.

Her video has since gone viral, and has triggered widespread debate online, with many viewers criticising both her outfit and her partner's lack of communication.

Unexpected Shock At The Wedding

The TikToker, known as Bez, shared her experience in a video that has since gained thousands of views. She explained that she only discovered the black-tie requirement upon arriving at the wedding venue. While other guests were dressed in elegant floor-length black gowns and suits, Bez stood out in a brightly coloured, casual outfit that drew immediate attention.

According to her video, she had asked her boyfriend beforehand what she should wear, and he had casually replied: 'Whatever, just something nice.' Trusting his advice, she chose a colourful patterned skater skirt with a matching cape, layered over a vest top. The look was completed with white Dr. Martens boots and high socks, which she wore due to a calf injury that prevented her from wearing heels.

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I dressed like a toddler to a black tie wedding I want to ☠️ #wedding #blacktie

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'I Looked Like A Toddler At A Black-Tie Wedding'

Bez admitted in her TikTok post that she felt completely out of place among the formally dressed guests. 'When I walked into this wedding, that is when I found out that it is black tie,' she said. 'Every woman at this wedding is wearing a floor-length black gown.'

Overwhelmed by embarrassment, Bez confessed that she spent much of the evening 'hiding out in the staff hallway' because she was 'having kind of a panic attack all night'. She also said she avoided photos so as not to 'ruin all the wedding pictures'. Reflecting on her outfit, she told viewers, 'I look like a kindergartner on her first day of school. I look like some kind of cartoon character that got brought to life.'

Online Reaction Turns Brutal

The video quickly circulated on TikTok and other social media platforms, with thousands of users weighing in. Many commenters criticised her boyfriend for failing to tell her about the dress code, calling it inconsiderate. One user wrote, 'He did NOT look out for you. I'd be so upset!' while another said, 'Honestly, this would be a deal breaker situation for me.'

Others focused on the outfit itself, with several commenters expressing disbelief that she chose it for a wedding at all. One wrote, 'I gasped at the boots. What were you thinking? It's a WEDDING!' Another quipped that her look was more suited to 'a JoJo Siwa concert' than a formal ceremony. The general consensus was that most people would have left the event altogether if they had found themselves in the same position.

An Unforgettable Fashion Mishap

Bez concluded her post by saying she could not believe she had missed such an important detail. She emphasised that she would 'not do this on purpose' and had no intention of standing out. The situation, however, has left her with an unforgettable lesson, and an audience that won't soon forget her story either.