Tom Cruise 'Feels Used' After Split From 'Smothered' Ana de Armas—'He Was Too Controlling'

Tom Cruise's brief romance with Ana de Armas has reportedly ended in heartbreak, with insiders saying the Mission: Impossible star 'feels used' after the 37-year-old Cuban-born actress walked away, claiming she felt 'smothered' by his domineering personality.
The eight-month relationship, which began earlier this year, unravelled amid growing tension over Cruise's controlling nature and De Armas's desire for independence, leaving both stars reeling.
A Love That Burned Too Fast
Cruise and De Armas started dating in February after meeting through mutual industry acquaintances. Their relationship swiftly became one of Hollywood's most talked-about couples, with a public display of affection over a weekend vacation in Vermont confirming the allegations.
According to sources, their rapid relationship included lavish European trips, extravagant gifts, and Cruise's typical charm. However, fractures began to appear beneath the glamour. Insiders say Cruise's inclination to micromanage every area of his partner's life quickly took its toll on De Armas.
'Tom was constantly interjecting, advising her on everything from her image to her career choices,' according to one insider. 'At first, Ana was flattered by his attention, but eventually she felt suffocated.'
Control Versus Independence
Friends of De Armas describe her as extremely independent, which apparently clashed with Cruise's domineering personality. While Cruise supposedly intended for a long-term relationship, De Armas grew to believe that her life revolved too much around him.
According to a close source, the actress felt her identity slipping away. 'Ana was caught up in the excitement of dating someone as powerful as Tom, but she quickly found she couldn't breathe. She needed space.'
By late October, tensions between the two had reached a breaking point. De Armas apparently confronted Cruise about his need for control and opted to leave before things got worse.
Cruise Left 'Feeling Used'
According to some close to Cruise, the breakup caught him off guard. The actor, who has had several high-profile splits, reportedly told friends that he was feeling 'used', that Ana had taken advantage of his fame to boost her career before abruptly ending things.
'He's hurt,' a source revealed. 'He believed Ana was the one. He had high hopes, but now he believes she left as soon as she got what she wanted.'
Cruise is claimed to be struggling emotionally, with friends noting that his 'need to be in control' frequently complicates relationships.
Patterns of the Past
The star's love life has long been the subject of public scrutiny. His marriages to Mimi Rogers, Nicole Kidman, and Katie Holmes all ended in high-profile divorces, with allegations of Cruise's demanding personality. According to sources, the actor's romantic intensity often overwhelms partners seeking independence.
'He's an incredible person in many ways,' remarked one friend, 'but living with Tom is difficult. His focus, drive, and demand for structure may make anyone feel trapped.
Moving On
Meanwhile, De Armas, who previously dated Ben Affleck in 2020, is reportedly prioritising her career and emotional well-being. The Knives Out actress has several significant projects lined up and is apparently 'at peace' with her choice to call it quits.
Insiders believe Cruise is taking time to reflect while working on new Mission: Impossible films. Friends hope he will use the time to find balance in both his professional and personal life.
'Tom needs someone who can match his intensity but also ground him,' a source stated 'Unfortunately, Ana wasn't that person.'
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