Melania Trump
From the UN to Fox & Friends, Melania Trump offers a glimpse into her private role advising Donald Trump Trump White House Archived / Flickr

First Lady Melania Trump said she gives President Donald Trump candid feedback on his public performances, acknowledging during a Fox & Friends appearance on Wednesday that he does not always want to hear what she tells him.

The remark came as she spoke from New York City, where she had joined the president for the 81st United Nations General Assembly the day before.

A Candid Moment on Fox & Friends

Melania appeared alongside co-hosts Lawrence Jones, Ainsley Earhardt and Brian Kilmeade on Sept. 23, hours after watching Trump deliver a 37-minute address to world leaders at the United Nations General Assembly on Tuesday, Sept. 22.

When asked what she told him after the speech, she replied, 'I told him he had great delivery, did very well and a great speech.'

She then added, 'I tell him the truth. Sometimes he doesn't want to hear it, what I tell him, but that's okay. I always say the truth.'

Asked how she thought Trump was handling his second term, she said: 'It's a very different situation in the world now. But I think he's doing the best he can.'

Context Around Melania's Public Role

The news came after a period in which Melania has maintained a lower public profile during Trump's second term. An analysis published on Aug. 17 noted she has done about half as many public events as she had at the same point in his first term.

She has acknowledged the speculation about her whereabouts. At a White House Rose Garden event on Aug. 20, promoting the expansion of her Fostering the Future Together initiative, she quipped, 'I heard you missed me. Here I am.'

Prior to that, her last public appearance was at the FIFA World Cup final in East Rutherford, New Jersey, on July 19, with her last public remarks delivered at a Treasury Department event on June 11, where she announced new saving and investment accounts for children in foster care.

UN Appearance and Initiative Expansion

On Sept. 22, Melania attended the 81st United Nations General Assembly, where she watched her husband speak, and separately addressed a Fostering the Future Together gathering held on the sidelines of the assembly.

She announced that the coalition had secured seven new technology-sector partnerships intended to benefit children globally, and she reconvened representatives from 57 member nations to discuss expanding access to education technology and online safety.

'Together, we are a beautiful range of cultures, languages, histories, and traditions, and yet, we stand unified around one everlasting truth, the future of our world will be determined by what we do for our children today,' she said, according to a White House report.

She also outlined four upcoming gatherings for the remainder of 2026, including a G20 event she will host in Miami in December and regional meetings hosted by first ladies in the Philippines, Poland and Saint Kitts and Nevis.

The State Department said the initiative had secured seven new technology-sector partnerships with Adobe, Amazon, Google, Intel, N50, Starlink and Zoom.

The initiative, which Melania announced during the 80th United Nations General Assembly in September 2025, focuses on four pillars, AI in Education, EdTech Tools, Online Protection and Digital Skills.

Marriage, Truth and a Second Term

Melania's Fox & Friends comments arrived as Trump's UN speech touched on contentious subjects, including the war with Iran, plans to establish a 'large military presence' on Greenland, and a pledge that the communist government of Cuba 'will fall.' A separate US-Denmark-Greenland security agreement was signed on Sept. 22.

The couple first met in 1998 at a New York Fashion Week party, became engaged in 2004 and married in 2005 in Palm Beach, Florida. Their only child together, Barron Trump, was born in 2006.

Melania's comments were made during a Fox & Friends interview on Sept. 23 and have been reported by multiple outlets. Her remarks about her private conversations with Trump reflect her own account and cannot independently establish the nature of their private relationship.