Tim Gunn Celibate for 43 Years: What We Know About the Promiscuous Co-Worker Who Shockingly Betrayed Him
Fashion consultant Tim Gunn discusses the personal and professional effects of a past betrayal

Tim Gunn, the former judge of Project Runway, has revealed that he has been celibate for 43 years following a shocking betrayal by a former partner. Speaking on the Dear Chelsea podcast on 19 February, the 72-year-old fashion consultant recounted a serious nine-year relationship in Washington, DC, that ended abruptly due to his partner's infidelity. The revelation provides insight into the personal reasons behind Gunn's decades-long celibacy and has captured the attention of fans worldwide.
Gunn described the end of the relationship as emotionally devastating. The former couple were in bed watching the television show MASH* when his partner told him that they had 'no patience for [him] any longer' and asked him to leave. The ex-partner, who was also Gunn's co-worker, admitted to having been intimate with numerous other people while Gunn had remained faithful.
Details of the Betrayal
The relationship, which lasted nearly a decade, profoundly affected Gunn's personal life. Speaking candidly on the podcast, he recounted driving to his own apartment on Rock Creek Parkway after the breakup and needing to pull over due to hyperventilation. Gunn described the moment as one of intense self-pity and emotional turmoil.
He also revealed that the emotional impact of the betrayal was compounded by concerns over his health. Gunn stated that he underwent HIV testing every six months for ten years following the split, ultimately receiving a clean bill of health. Despite this reassurance, the memories of betrayal continued to influence his willingness to pursue romantic relationships.
Long-Term Effects on Personal Life
Gunn explained that the experience shaped him into someone who now prefers living alone and remaining celibate. According to Page Six,' he admitted that adjusting to life as a single person was initially difficult, but he has come to accept and even appreciate his solitary lifestyle.
Whenever he has been tempted to engage in a serious relationship, the memories of past betrayal have returned with 'the force of Niagara Falls,' making it impossible for him to develop new romantic attachments.
The fashion consultant's openness about his celibacy has sparked discussions about the lasting effects of infidelity and emotional trauma. By sharing these personal experiences, Gunn has provided a rare glimpse into the private challenges faced by public figures.
Career Context and Current Projects
While Gunn's personal life has drawn attention, he also reflected on his professional journey. He expressed disappointment at not being asked to participate in the 2025 Project Runway reboot, describing the initial reaction as 'devastating.' However, he acknowledged the opportunities he has had, including 19 seasons on the show, 16 alongside co-judge Heidi Klum.
Gunn and Klum now collaborate as executive producers and stars on the reality fashion series Making the Cut on Prime Video. The series continues to showcase their influence in the fashion industry, highlighting Gunn's career longevity and professional resilience despite personal setbacks.
Public Interest and Media Coverage
The story of Gunn's celibacy and past relationship has been widely reported in entertainment media. While details about the ex-partner remain undisclosed, the known facts about the co-worker's promiscuity and the emotional consequences for Gunn provide a compelling narrative.
Fans and journalists alike have taken interest in the revelations, which combine elements of personal struggle, betrayal, and long-term impact on one of fashion television's most recognised figures.
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