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Trump and Melania marriage rumours swell as Michael Wolff claims the pair 'barely speak' and an expert weighs in on their separate routines Carmen Rodriguez/Flickr PDM 1.0

Fresh Trump and Melania marriage rumours have intensified in recent weeks after author Michael Wolff claimed the couple 'barely speak' and spend little time together, while reports say Melania spends much of her time in New York and is rarely at the White House.

For context, the claims surfaced on Wolff's Substack publication, HOWL, where the writer alleged that the relationship between the president and his wife is probably at its lowest point in years amid reported tensions between the first lady and the president's executive assistant, Natalie Harp.

Wolff alleged that Melania Trump is locked in a power struggle with the 35-year-old aide, claiming the first lady would not show up if Harp was around.

Aide Power Struggle Sparks Fresh Marriage Rumours

Reports indicate that Harp is deeply devoted to the president, with accounts claiming she once spent an entire summer living inside a locker room at his golf club in Bedminster, New Jersey, to remain close to him.

The aide has also reportedly left private notes for the president to discover, including one stating, 'You are all that matters to me.' IBTimes UK cannot independently verify these claims, so take everything lightly.

Wolff further claimed that Melania is hardly ever at the White House and spends a lot of her time in New York instead, highlighting the growing physical gap between the couple.

Expert Warns When Two Partners 'Barely Speak'

The reports of physical separation prompted relationship expert Gemma Logan to suggest that the couple might not be in a healthy place, observing that they appear to be living parallel lives rather than a shared one.

Speaking exclusively to The Irish Star, Logan explained, 'A marriage where two people are reportedly barely speaking is clearly not in a healthy place. Communication is the heartbeat of any long term relationship.'

Logan warned that when conversation becomes minimal, couples can easily drift apart. At that point, the question is not simply whether they spend time together, but whether they still feel emotionally connected when they do.

What Physical Distance Means for Donald Trump

Despite the claims, Logan noted that distance does not always mean the relationship is over. Some couples function with far more independence, particularly when both partners have demanding lives, strong personalities and very different ways of dealing with public attention.

'Living in different places doesn't automatically spell trouble,' Logan said. 'Plenty of couples have successful relationships while spending significant periods apart because of work, family responsibilities or lifestyle choices.'

She added that the real issue is what happens emotionally during that time. If the distance is mutually agreed, openly discussed and balanced with genuine affection, it can work, and in some cases, a little breathing room can even make a relationship stronger.

However, if physical distance is being used to avoid conflict, emotional intimacy or difficult conversations, it can become a sign of a much deeper problem. The key question for Donald and Melania Trump is whether their separate routines are simply practical or whether they reflect a relationship that has become increasingly separate in every meaningful sense.