Prince Harry and Meghan Markle Are Avoiding the 'Too Awkward' Royal Christmas Gathering, Close Pal Claims
A friend says the Sussexes are not expecting an invitation to the traditional royal gathering and may organise the festive period around Meghan's mother

Prince Harry and Meghan Markle are unlikely to spend Christmas with the Royal Family at Sandringham in December 2026, with a friend of the couple describing the prospect as 'too awkward and too difficult'. Instead, the Duke and Duchess of Sussex are considering festive plans centred on Meghan's mother, Doria Ragland, and her preferences for the holiday season.
The couple are reportedly not expecting an invitation from King Charles to join the traditional royal Christmas gathering. According to a friend quoted by The Sunday Times, the Sussexes are not waiting for an invitation either, suggesting that a reunion with senior royals is not currently part of their plans.
Prince Harry and Meghan Markle Put Doria Ragland First at Christmas
For context, Harry and Meghan stepped back from their official royal duties in 2020 before relocating to North America. Since then, they have established separate lives in the United States, although Harry has maintained links with British charities and causes.
Their Christmas arrangements appear to reflect that separation. A friend told The Sunday Times that the couple would make decisions around Ragland's wishes for both major holidays.
'For Thanksgiving and Christmas, they will do whatever Doria wants to do,' the friend said.
Ragland lives in California, but the Sussexes would reportedly welcome her to Britain if she preferred to spend the festive period there. They are also prepared to travel to accommodate her plans, leaving open the possibility of a celebration away from their Montecito home.
The same friend was more direct about the prospect of joining the Royal Family for Christmas.
'They won't be having Christmas with the Royal Family. How could that even work? They know it would be too awkward and too difficult.'
The source added that the couple understood they would not be invited and were not expecting an invitation. These comments suggest that a Sandringham reunion is unlikely, although no formal announcement of the Sussexes' Christmas plans has been provided in the supplied details.
King Charles and the Royal Family Face an Uncertain Reunion
The prospect of separate Christmas celebrations comes despite reports of renewed family contact earlier in the year. King Charles and Queen Camilla reportedly welcomed Harry, Meghan and their children, Archie, seven, and Lilibet, five, to Highgrove House in July.
The visit suggested that some family contact remained possible. It does not, however, establish that relations between the Sussexes and the wider Royal Family have improved or that further meetings are planned.
Charles is said to be receptive to spending more time with his family. Yet there are currently no reported plans for Harry and Meghan to resume official working roles within the monarchy.
That distinction matters. Private family contact does not automatically translate into a return to royal duties, and the couple have continued building their professional lives outside the institution.
The reported absence of contact between Harry and his elder brother, Prince William, also complicates the prospect of a gathering involving senior members of the family. According to the supplied account, William has not met Harry since the Sussexes returned to Britain, and the brothers are understood to remain estranged.
A Christmas gathering would require more than an invitation. It would bring together relatives whose relationship remains strained, with little public evidence that a broader reconciliation is imminent.
Prince Harry and Meghan Markle Maintain Separate Professional Lives
The Sussexes are also preparing for a joint public appearance in Nottingham on Thursday. The planned visit is expected to mark their first public engagement together, according to the supplied details.
Harry continues to support British charitable organisations while maintaining his involvement with the Invictus Games. Birmingham is scheduled to host the sporting event in July 2027, keeping a major part of his philanthropic work connected to the UK.
Meghan, meanwhile, is developing As Ever, her lifestyle venture offering products including food, wine and candles. She also plans to pursue collaborations with charitable organisations and patrons associated with her former work as a member of the Royal Family.
These commitments illustrate how the couple have developed independent roles since leaving royal duties. Harry retains established connections with British causes, while Meghan is building a commercial brand alongside her charitable interests.
For now, however, neither those connections nor the reported summer visit to Highgrove provide evidence of a planned royal Christmas reunion. The account of their festive intentions rests on comments attributed to a friend, rather than a formal statement from the couple or Buckingham Palace.
Whether Ragland spends the holidays in California or travels to Britain remains unclear. What the source's remarks indicate is that the Sussexes are making their plans around her preferences, not around an anticipated invitation to Sandringham.
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