White man cursing at Black man
A white man allegedly racially abused a Black man from a locked car during a parking dispute Instagram/thegirlslovemebad

A video showing a white driver directing racist insults at a Black man before refusing to leave his vehicle has circulated online following a parking dispute in New Jersey.

The footage, shared by a man known online as Abe, shows him confronting the driver outside a Walmart in Kearny. The argument reportedly began over a minor parking disagreement before escalating into racial abuse.

According to the video, the driver called Abe a 'f*king Black a** piece of sh*t' and described his skin colour as 'brown as sh*t'. The man remained inside his locked car, with the window slightly open, as Abe challenged him to step outside.

'Get out of the car, boss. Get out the car. Let's just get this over with,' Abe said.

When the driver refused, Abe questioned why he was willing to make racist remarks but unwilling to face him outside the vehicle. 'See how you can say all that stuff but be a coward at the same time?' he asked.

The driver initially replied, 'Yeah, I can,' before declaring, 'I'm damn proud of it.' He then added, 'I'm gonna stay here [in the car] and make you wait.'

Driver Repeatedly Punches His Own Window

Abe continued challenging the man, highlighting the contrast between his aggressive language and his refusal to leave the car.

'No, I'm gonna stay here and make you wait,' he said. 'You the one inside the car. You the one inside the hot car. Trapped. Hot. Scared of this Black man. You the one scared of this Black man that you saying all this stuff about.'

The exchange continued until Abe leaned towards the driver's window and quietly repeated, 'Get out of the car, boss.'

The driver then repeatedly punched the window with his fist, according to the footage. 'Not scared, boss,' Abe responded. 'You're just punching your own glass. Punch it harder so it could break. Do it!'

The man struck the glass again as Abe continued filming. Abe moved closer to the window and asked, 'Say your name for the people.' He then appeared to spit at the driver before walking away.

Abe later described his approach as psychological warfare, insisting that he had never intended to physically hurt the driver.

'I never intended on actually hurting ol boy cuz he was truly scared and [I don't] prey on the weak! But I definitely enjoyed making him eat his words and be scared bcuz if you [could] say all that [you should] be able to stand on it!! He walked away unharmed tho!!' he wrote.

The driver's identity and whether police investigated the incident could not be independently confirmed from the available reports.

Similar Parking Disputes Also Draw Online Attention

The incident follows a Maryland parking dispute in September 2026, when a Black woman filmed a white driver allegedly directing racial slurs at her, throwing coffee at her vehicle and saying she belonged in a 'zoo'.

In October 2025, Madinah Muhammad shared footage of a white man allegedly hurling racist and misogynistic insults at her in Pismo Beach, California. City Manager Jorge Garcia responded: 'Racism has no place in our community. People of all races and backgrounds are welcome in Pismo Beach.'

The incidents highlight how viral videos expose alleged racist behaviour, although footage may not capture the full context.